I was born and raised in a very traditional family in kerala. Some family members and and neighbors criticises my education, "education made her progressive thinker" and they consider it as an insult. I believe my life experiences and outlook changed me. I felt I'm not fitting in the box society created for me. Then I started living in other cities for my job and travel. Then I understood people are not the same everywhere. My ideas were matching with people from North East India. I continued to travel. I met many people in my travels in different countries, good people who matched with my values. They didn't feel that I'm an alien like my Kerala society backhome. Then I understood its not me who need to change, but the society . That made my life "Adipoli"